Tuesday, June 22, 2010

SEXES LOVE & WAR

Happy Belated fathers day to all the father's out there....
I was reading an article and it said, on mother's day
Mothers get the most calls but on father's day........
More collect calls are made, I paused and thought hmm!
Men have become victims, fighting back av become futile
Generally Women believe men are the ENEMY,
Men try to prove otherwise only to be pushed out to the cold
So now as the women try to find friends, the men result to being the enemy!
Now whats that saying again "Be careful what u wish for"
I am not a feminist, I am not on a Pro Men campaign but........
Its high time we celebrate this men, we can hate them, blame them
Their children love them regardless of the hate the mothers feed them......
U walk into the prisons and the men tear up at the picture of their kids
Half of the time, the fight for survival and the measure of his worth as a man
Lands him in Jail, I am not condoning crimes, but if they got a lil support,
a lil love, a lil understanding, a lil security, Men r truly like babies.......
Men no disrespect but, they need to be nutured too, see past the Machoism
They get insecure too, they get scared of failing as a Man, husband or father
Sum had to look to the streets to learn to be a man
Sum had to be beaten down to learn to fight back
Sum had to learn to control anger by watching their mums get hit.....
Sum had to watch their sisters cry thru heartbreak.....
To learn what not to do to another woman.......
I know we say they are liars, cheats and all what not yet.....
The good ones r still not appreciated enough........
Celebrate them, let them have a reason to come home,
Women we know we r our own Poison Ivy.............
A man refuses ur advances and u go all out to destroy his home
Now wives, understand that rather than fight in times like this
Ur weapon is ur knees and lips to GOD, it seems cliche but its the truth
Men are made by God to care, protect and love us............
When u make a man feel he is invaluable to U his value wld never be seen
No man wants to feel like u can handle it all the time even if you can
Let them handle it, its their sense of pride, the moment you do it all
The less of his value is what u wld see not realizing u av been ...........
Too busy being both the Man & Woman in the relationship..........
Dont let the bedroom be the only place u regard him as a Man
Give him his respect and let him be a Man to you..............
Now this is to the abled men out there, I am certainly not talking
To the junkies, excuse of a man, husband or father , the liars or cheats
No they are out there, but the women seem to stick to them more??
Women complain wen they get the guy who adores them , treats dem like Queens
The unfortunate thing is they mess it up for the women who wld appreciate it..........
Men ill also say the cover aint the gold look at its content b4 u will ur life to her......
Men & Women are interesting group of people, but they are too bent on revenge......
Revenge for the one who gave them hell and destroy the one bringing them paradise.....
Men are wonderful people and the truth is we cannot do without them.....
Everytime u complain be sure a thousand are singing his praise out there
No one is saying lower ur standards, No one is saying be a slave but.....
Be rest assured every girl wld neva tell you all she does in her relationship,
The things she tells u she cannot take she has taken worse than that from a man......
When you make a ridicule of ur man in front of the world, u go back behind closed doors
Then make up, Ur man wld still be a carricature of a being to the world............
Men pick the right ladies, dont go about with Jezebels.............
U all come back destroyed and expect us to fix you NO...........
Women are not meant to fix, manage, accept or be numb to unacceptable things
God designed us to give and get the best of one another, when u give ur best to swines
Dont expect to make a haven with a Swan and not meet up halfway..........
Lets celebrate one another, life is too short to get choked on irrelevancies.....
Leave ur past where it is, and take a risk by walking into the future.......
~TejuMola

3 comments:

gretel said...

Tejumola,this was a good one and I think I know how this post came about,this write up was well written.
It is a must read for every man,woman,boy,girl,sir,madam,I mean EVERY FREAKIN(THAT'S NOT WHAT I REALLY WANTED TO SAY)MAN AND WOMAN.
How are you sef?

ee said...

I concur!

I appreciate the men in my life(Dad,step dad and hubby)
Wont trade dem 3 for anything in the world except a date with....hummm NOBODY!

Teejay said...

Gretel , LMAO i knw what u wanted to say Mami! Thank u for reading was a bit sceptical abt pple's reactions but thank u for the encouragment. I am fine and U hun?
KabiOsi, Thanks Mami yes oo we shld appreciate them as much as we can...hows the marital bliss going?
Much love ladies xoxoxo