RAMBLINGS

Hey y'all
     Whats crackalacking?? Its monday i guess every where, the times might be different. I woke up today feeling good and promised to try and stay positive thru the week. Its raining so might av been the first cloud in my shine but i choose to focus on that shine in my world.
So whats everyone up to, Il say i av been on a lovely cruise in the last 2 weeks! O Sugar i cant even begin to describe this, i am up in the air , in the clouds call it what u want ill just say its all about the BAA!
In the last couple of months i av been a roller coaster with my emotions, not relationship wise, friends, family, work and just personal ish!! there comes a point u start to question some decisions, some friendships, some emotional ties that shld not av been made....now u get me good!
I was in one of those ish! and i wondered for a while whats my drive, i was about to make a silly mistake but thank goodness for my darling sis Dups, i wld av whipped myself now. I laugh at such stupidity cuz thats what it wld av been. Anyways invariably my eyes got cleared and slowly i got back into my element and there this gift of an Angel came!.
Am amazing friend i av knw for over a decade now and how much impact he has made in my life is jz amazing! His maturity, his care, his realness gudness it cant be real i tell myself all the time but oh well! i guess its true when they say u need the counsel of the wise ones and experience of the life learners to set u on the right path in life.
He has thot me grace, patience but one thing ill never forget is this piece of advice he gave me, try to take big issues lightly, stay positive and do ur best in all u do. I av been on a different high for a while cuz i am back to my old self, i was lost to a silly phase at one point but i am back and better, loving it as well.
I learn everyday from pple i meet in life, met some amazing folks on twitter while i av met some its better our paths never cross, so high on their horse the only thing u can pray for is the mighty fall on their nose (lol).
So in all i av been good! no gist for now, oh! yes we r planning my sis wedding and finally conviced her to move it to DEC, yay! cant wait to see my twam and rock with them.....its going to be a lvly dec and i am going to celebrate my sweetie's bday on Dec 19!!
Now, going back to work but first check on twitter and see whats new, :)
Mwah!!!

THOTS!!!

These are Quotes i live by, some r by great men & women of History  while some are just my thots inspired by both the good , bad & ugly!!!
Never make someone a PRIORITY while you are their OPTION ~ sounds hard i knw, been tough to practice but i had to take the bull by the horn hope u do the same. I av come to realize human beings r truly self centered.
Love is the only cure for a BROKEN HEART ~ many times we get heartbroken and the next thing we want to do is H8 or lash out! yep its very easy to but i say one thing to my friends: it hurts but allow your heart to heal..its a process, there is no quick way to dealing with such. Jump the nxt person ull hate urself more, Feeding into lust is easy but you are still left empty. The best way is to let all the cobwebs of ur past go , so that God wld bring the ever green present into ur heart.
Words KILL faster than a GUN/SWORD ~ If there is one thing i detest TACTLESS pple. I believe in moderacy, I just dont get the idea, when pple believe they can say anything they want to anybody cuz u r of higher status, ur fame or because u think you are good with words. I for one dont knw how to battle with words, i have friends good at it, but they knw me well enough to either be off me wen they r mad. Words cut me deep i cant explain it , i become a monster when u talk down at me lol.
O yeah some are good with sarcasm and thats a no brainer, but i believe wen pple think they are smart or smart mouthed its a mirage for the real person they are.
FAME GETS U THRU THE DOOR BUT CHARACTER KEEPS U IN THE ROOM ~ heard this quote from my bro REMI and i fell in love with it. Ok this is not even to just celebrities, when pple think they have gotten to a certain status, and a little shimmer of light shines a lil brighter on them than the rest..it becomes a problem. No one is saying dont bask in ur fame , but some choke on it and it ends up killing their personality.
Humility is Key and pple forget that, we all love to say I am proud, i am who i am, i dont care what they say but check urself, should it not be about who u are and not what u are?
TOUGH SKIN ~ My friend Blaze taught me this, i used to be, maybe still am a sensitive person. I would care about what pple think, about how i looked to pple and if i thought i was not liked i automatically thot something was wrong with me. SO FAIL, Blaze thot me to DO ME, u cant please the world and thats hardcore truth. U try A - Z they wld be a complaint about each one. So each day i think of those in my corner, cuz ull av dem even if its one but u r guaranteed a true one at d end. 
LIVE & LET LIVE ~ Too many thots, worries, when? Why? what? but if we keep wondering and asking questions, days turn into nights, into months, years and u are still stoked on the same questions. U wld never realize time had passed. ME TIME is very important, take out time and DO U, shop!!! u worked hard so spoil yourself a lil bit. Take time out and treat yourself, a spa treatment a vacation whatever it is, learn to enjoy urself.
FOLLOW UR HEART ~ This is a bit tricky cuz i av had friends debate this particular saying. As for me i follow my heart i dont care if i am rejected, hurt, or scorned but at least i ff and got a reaction Negative yes but i did. Whats the point of saying shouldacoulda? What if the feeling was mutual, what if it was an infatuation u thot it was love, then u never speak, but wait for the day God had ordained for ur Mirage of a thought while u deny yourself of others and chase a shadow. Life is a risk, Love is beautiful, Attention is bliss, go for it, dont grow old and be caged in a box all ur life.
RESPECT THE CHOICE ~ I am referring to relationships and other forms of hook ups here. Its hard but i av come to understand that we get too choked on our emotions, we dont see what God is telling us. We string along in a relationship and wen it finally blows in your face others are to be blamed. Life is hard as it is, if someone decides to walk away let them, if you make them stay, it becomes a drag!
TO BE CONTINUED
I am a bit tired at the moment and cant wait to be outta d office. ill continue with this soon.....
Love u all and thanks for always stopping by, i see u lot
Mwah xoxoxoxoxo
TejuMola

E!N!O!U!G!H!

                                                                
Yesterday! in Unison the youths of my motherland came together in FEET, voice and mind as we all said Enough is Enough!!.
March 16th at the Eagles Square Abuja Nigeria, the  leaders got a prelude to a show thats about to run for a real long time.
 The youths are slowly taking over the country from their hands and they better keep looking at the clock , cuz their time is running out.
This is no longer about a plea, we are not begging them anymore, we are telling them DIALOGUE with us, look us in the eyes as ur heart conceals ur evil deeds and tell us more lies........
It was a peaceful rally, we the youths decided to apply the LITERACY we were schooled with, others on the other hand, doubted if this rally was going to be of any effect?? well, like a friend of mine Henry Okelue said and i quote "We rather would march and fail than not march at all" there is no harm in trying.
We sit all day on our lazy selves, complaining of the problems, the discomfort yet when pple rise up to the occassion to make a change, these set of doubting Thomases are the first ones to rain on the parade.
We proved them wrong yesterday, the celebrities, media personalities, tomorrow's leaders all stood at the gate of the NATIONAL ASSEMBLY and demanded Hon. Bankole come out to speak to them. After he promised to address the youths, he never showed up,but the pride was the solidarity as they stood at the gates waiting.
Well, the waiting was not in vain, the gates of  the National Assembly was opened and the youths marched in, and many thanks to the likes of Uncle Dele Momodu, Omotola Jalade- Ekeinde, Stella Damasus and co who used their stardom for a positive cause.
My friends and colleagues marched in to the National Assembly, and I say to them take in that air, inhale it and sense it becuase when we all get to these appointed seats this is not the same filthy air we want to inhale ever again.
March 16th 2010, the leaders saw for the first time, what the youths are capable of doing, they saw their greedy lives flash before their eyes, as the clock ticks away, their days are numbered......
We just started, the revolution is on, the killings must stop, the corruption must stop, the greed , the lies, the bad governance we are tired of it.
We are tired of not enjoying the basic amenities, the necessities and not luxury, tired of incompetencies, tired of being comfortable in our misery, its not supposed to be a way of life. No we refuse to accept this as our Nigeria.
 Our time has come and we need you to clean this mess before you leave, do not worry about the politics, power and finance to get us there, we have one thing y'all never had! UNION!!!!!
To my fellow Nigerians, comrades We are comfortable in this discomfort forced on us , we were blinded and now we see , let us not continue in this discomfort...............................
 Arise pple lets fight for what is ours JUSTICE, PEACE, A RIGHT TO LIVE & LIFE

I AM PROUDLY NIGERIAN

J! O! S!

The screams, the pleas, the cries so much chaos in the air..........
Then the thundering noise, scary and deafening shots fired......
Then iron against iron, slicing noise, blood spills, everywhere............
O lord in this ill hour of the night this town has turned upside down..........
JOS, this used to be a beautiful city, back in the day when we were growing up, my parents would tell of this place like some resort on its own.
The weather was different, it was a peaceful city and we hardly heard any evil happenings in and around JOS
In the 21st century, this beautiful city has turned to a nightmare, the peace is long lost, chaos and dis array....
Where did we go wrong? what is the hatred about? RELIGION they say, i refuse to believe, what drives a man to be an animal in his thinking and less of an animal in his action?
You want me to believe in your GOD, or the mirage of what you are being told?
The MUSLIMS r unfortunately the ones going about killing Christians....
I wont say all MUSLIMS r EVIL but their fanatical insanity has cost us PEACE.....
I bleed in my heart as i remember the pictures i saw, how evil pple av chosen to be.........
Last week was a massacre in Jos, where WOMEN & KIDS were butched..........
They were brutally attacked, and what got me was not just the pictures.........
The first was the attack on WOMEN & KIDS, not to say MEN deserved to die.............
Secondly they were not shot, they were axed and butched to pieces..............
I cried as i saw those pictures, those kids with brains split into splatters.............
My heart bled and still bleeds, i heard of the wars but seeing those pictures!!!!!
I was angered at how ignorant i had been, how can they just take kids and kill them?
What do they know tell me pls? Maybe i am missing something or naive to all of this?
Whatever the case may be, children are of ZERO TOLERANCE - off limits.......
I wonder how these men go back home, eat with their blood stained hands........
Go home to their wives and kids, look them in the eye and tell them they love dem
As each axe they brought down on those kids and women hang over them.........
I have made sure each day as i remember i say a word even if i cant pray JOS,
God sees my heart, hears me i would do anything to help the needy, the less priviledged
This could have happened to anyone or any city, pple get angry and begin a riot........
I am grateful friends and family are safe and sound, we never appreciate one another enough.........
There is so much Envy, anger amongst ourselves, we choke on Hatred and die bitter........
I tell people all the time life is short, too short for H8 never get tired of appreciating d ones u love....
Everyday we walk past pple and never knw what haunts their heart, the sadness they conceal
Some need a smile, a hug, a warm greeting, words of encouragement .........
They go a long way, feed the hungry, cloth the naked, help the elderly............
Be a blessing to someone, tell someone you love them, make sure u GIVE
Pray for the victims of Jos , it cld be anyone of us, dey dont deserve to die......
Those Kids had a lot to live for, God knws better we can't question his motives...........
One last thing ill say is those murderers would pray to die but death wld run far away......
When the time comes for them to face the music of their ungodly and inhumane actions.
JOS ON MY MIND! LORD TAKE OVER ♥

~TejuMola